My father died two weeks ago.  He was a devout Catholic and former Franciscan brother.  The last week of his life he was really upset -- not about dying, but about that church in Gainesville that’s planning to burn Korans on 9/11.

My dad thought it wasn’t Christian, but an act of Christian supremacy.  I said it would be cute if they used German accents.

He didn’t laugh either.  But I’ve been thinking of  him all week amidst the furor over the ‘Ground Zero Mosque.’  Which isn’t at Ground Zero, and isn’t a mosque.  It’s in the old Burlington Coat Factory building, which makes it a deeply offensive to we Americans who care about quality outerwear.   I’m very protective of American jackets made in China.  And there’s a mosque inside it, but it’s really a community center with a theatre, café, meeting rooms, and, I’m sure at some point, a  Pinkberry.

Most people who live here in lower Manhattan have no problem with this.    But some of the same politicians who said 9/11 was about foreigners hating our freedoms -- are now busy hating our freedoms.  Freedom means that sometimes you’re gonna have to tolerate stuff that you find offensive; like other religions, flag burning, and the Jonas Brothers.

Al Qaeda wants America to hate our own Muslims, and to deny them the freedoms we take for granted.   They want to be able to say, "America hates Islam and their claim of freedom is a lie."  I say stop giving these guys what they want.     If the Cordoba House folks were smart they’d say "Folks, we don’t want enemies; we’re good people,  we’re gonna move 6 blocks over into the old TGI Friday's in Battery Park," even Newt Gingrich would have to say "a salaam alaikem."

But until then, they still have freedom of religion & assembly.  That means America wins.  I don’t think most politicians harbor animosity for Muslims, but you’ll never lose votes hating on Islam in an election year.

And I kinda take this personally, because my cousin’s Muslim.  He’s Egyptian American, and a doctor,  and 16 years ago, in a previous health scare, he helped save my father’s life.  I called him last week to thank him for all he’d done,  and he said "Don’t thank me.  Your father was my father."

And that made me proud to be an American.  I’ve got a Muslim cousin, a Jewish sister in law, an atheist brother and an ex-nun mother.  I don’t get to hate on ANYONE.